The first date is about looks, the rest is about confidence. If there is any guideline to be followed, well, guess it would be to just surf the waves. If you happen to mess up, you know you can always go back to being that girl standing across the bar, smiling with an ocean of sweetness in her eyes. The thought of that makes you believe you are all good, like bullet-proof good.
Every time you meet a boy it gives you a glimpse into a different world. You read his words, wear his t-shirts, listen to his music and let the heavy beats kill your brain cells by dozens, and then you start to understand what makes another person feel alive.